An abuser isn't abusive 24/7. They usually demonstrate positive character traits most of the time. That's what makes the abuse so confusing when it happens, and what makes leaving so much more difficult.

Miya Yamanouchi
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A person demonstrating positive character traits most of the time is not abusive. This is because there is no current or past evidence of abuse. The fact that an abuser may also display positive traits, like kindness and love, makes leaving even more difficult.

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